4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
I'm just grateful to the Lord Jesus for dying on the cross to pay for our sins and with God providing the Holy Spirit to convict us of our sins, along with His mercy to allow us to always confess our sins and go for turning away from them. Christ is risen!
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I'm starting to come across a studying method that's actually feeling seamless and not so mentally taxing. I give thanks to the Lord for allowing me to finally experience this. Honestly, I used to hate studying so much that I would be filled with anxiety while just imagining how I would manage to do it for a few hours at a time.
The most important thing I've come to realize is reading comprehension. It sort of makes sense how I always struggled with being a top student. Whenever I was tested on reading comprehension, I would always score around 50%. I can still get hung up on some sentences and erratically skip some important ones without ever paying any attention. Then when I get to the last sentence, I'm already completely lost. I thought it was all about constantly putting in the effort, but that's not the case. I also thought that maybe I was too dumb, but it also doesn't apply.
It's mainly two things. You have to read things as smoothly as possible. Secondly, you have to review some details you might have missed by quickly re-reading it. I understand how I used to frustrate a lot of my readers during most of my post-college years because I would use plenty of fancy words that were dichotomous. (People are naturally sensitive and also hypocritical by nature! I ticked off plenty of people who I consider to be like family.) Yes, dichotomous is a fancy word but it just means that I wasn't being clear enough. I just knew how to play the part of looking very fancy with my written statements but underneath, I used to not know what I was doing!
Reading is a skill and it's more of an instinctual kind of thing, in my opinion. There's really no good practical explanation except that you try to not sound out the words in your head and plow through the text as fast as you can. It was always uncomfortable for me whenever I thought about practicing speed reading. I proved myself wrong by eventually making myself feel comfortable about reading effortlessly.
It takes a lot of practice and some discipline. Mainly, if you haven't figured it out and are interested then you can start by reading things that interest you. I remember how I voraciously spent hours at a library reading some fun visual novels while feeling some guilty pleasures over it. I also remember reading so much on Wikipedia fan pages about plenty of shows I enjoyed watching. I was a slow to moderate reader and having a little hard time but I always liked to muscle my way through it.
Just to adapt to becoming better prepared for this difficult upcoming test, I finally learned to speed read long scenarios better while understanding it so I can select the best long answers with less hesitation.
