There are about so many things we could do to keep ourselves excited. When a person feels down and out, I realize that there are genuine people out there who can truly care for you. It is not just one person soaking in all the love and attention. It pretty much requires both sides to have this great model of unconditional love for each other. If this falls into place and with Jesus having conquered our sins and living in true repentance under his spirit, we find ourselves growing in fruitful fellowships.
It is highly difficult to sometimes gauge what is right and wrong. Some of us may feel this discomfort zone that causes a lot of calamity. I think individuals do influence us, and it would be a great thing to be a wonderful influence to others. The Bible states that God called all believers to repentance and to fellowship under a roof at a assembly, such as a home fellowship and a church.
I myself am definitely not perfect at everything and God says that it's through the blood of Jesus that we have been cleansed of all our unrighteous conduct. Furthermore, God blesses us with the Holy Spirit to convict us of our sins. The Lord has showed me a road where I can focus a lot more on self-control and to be reminded of how great God is through others communicating what the Lord has done for them. No matter how little or too wide, God is still in control and He truly blesses us with everything that we need in abundance.