I have learned that it may not be beneficial to hold on to something positive that really isn't there when it comes to dealing with individuals. The best thing to do is to pretty much be honest and knock out the frustration as best as possible in the least amount of confrontations and minimal amount of damage in a legal manner.
If something just keeps bothering you and you can't do anything about it but go about bugging the other person (even if you are being nice) who doesn't want to have anything to do with you, then that is going to make things really messy. Might as well just do a creative and legal behavior that would satisfy your urges from being so frustrated with the individual. Obviously, no one wants that from the other person and just wants to be left alone. I'm just saying this for those who are just really belligerent with their emotions- rather than committing a crime, might as well do something healthy and constructive instead of being destructive.
It's pretty much a one shot and possessing a ton of guts to let go of some dumb conflict that's been bothering the person for a long time, while being legal and morally in good considerable standing. I guess it's fair enough from a third party person and smart to filter out those individuals who have problems in general. We all have problems in general, I guess some individuals just connect better with others for any specific reason.