4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and play a decent round of online Poker. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing, trading, and playing online Poker. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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What did I do right today?
I'm learning to always get a well-planned and rightful feeling of satisfaction over all the little things dealing with people who are being bad to me.
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I now think that communication is the key and it depends on the words you say and in whatever surrounding it is. For a conflict, it's probably better to take it to a setting where the person will feel vulnerable. It's also the perception of making a group feel this way, if you are going to be outnumbered. There's also bringing up things the person is going to do and pointing out what bad they could do when you are not around and saying to do it anyways with someone else around. This sort of makes the person feel out of sorts I think. It's pretty much about using all the strategies you can whip up and taking a win because it's about getting that ultimate satisfaction of what you want and feeling great about it.
I consider myself lucky because I just need to talk about it with the person to feel satisfaction at its core. However, the person is probably going to be mad about not getting what they want so whenever you sense them being anti-social and asking you to distance yourself from them then you know it's a conflict so you would have to utilize all sorts of strategies to the best of your ability.
As long as a tactic out of many you use connects with the person and you feel good about yourself in the end, then that's all that matters. It's pretty much a numbers game, so it's about using everything at your disposal and being scrupulous about it. In a sense, it's about giving it your all even if you're not in the mood. It's about working hard to reach that satisfaction so it's not a bad thing to temporarily give up some level of comfort whether it's emotional or perceived.
It's with proper body language and speech and making sense that will beat out a selfish person who is acting rough with you and quite silly. It's also good to turn this person's group of supporters into feeling plenty of doubt by using strong influences like success or humor.
There's really no need to give into anger. I think the best revenge is to let the Lord do His work with discipling this adult who is behaving like a child, if you're a believer. However, a secondary option would be about being satisfied about how well you conducted yourself and achieving your goal. My goal is basically laughing about the situation and it doesn't matter if it's directly or indirectly at the person of conflict and getting others to join in the fun while using the best charismatic schemes I can work up. Basically, I'm always fun to be around whenever I'm myself and if someone is going to lose, then it might as well be the person who is acting narcissistic about not getting what they want.
