Getting Over Negative Thoughts

4AverageLife's Main Personal List

1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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Main Personal Daily Tasks Until Completion

1. Good hygiene.
2. Good exercise and diet. (Include stretches.)
3. Work on completing main projects at work.
4. Conduct trades and investments with intent to master them.
5.  Work on learning.
6. Clear out daily emails. 
7. Enjoy life.

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What did I do right today?

I have learned something that might be of value to me mentally.

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One of the biggest worries I might have over being short is being looked down upon and discriminated against or pre-judged negatively. I don't know if it's happened to me directly because I like to take some precautions to avoid putting myself in that situation. It might have happened to me in subtle forms already.

The most obvious, subtle form is in dating. I hardly got any responses from hot ladies after visiting their online dating profiles and showed some interest. This could probably be from a lot of other people already showing interest in them, along with putting information on my profile about being an Asian guy who doesn't seem that romantic. Maybe being mysterious would be better? What I'm saying is that it could really be a variety of other factors in place of being short.  

Despite lacking a sort of main preference by a large number of people that can't really be helped, when you come to think about it, it's still not everybody. There are billions of people in this world, so even if only one percent shows mutual interest in you, then that's still a lot.  

It just becomes about plugging yourself in and finding the right match for you. There's really no need to have a fixed mindset of feeling like a failure because you didn't end up looking a certain way to someone. Besides, it's already been annoying to hear that coming out of a few close friends. They have been just flat out annoying and uninspiring to do something for them, while they haven't been able to figure out something important from not being entirely happy. They may also have made a couple big mistakes that have been life-altering for them.  

What I think matters is to continue making progress with learning new things and being successful, while putting yourself out there and making a name for yourself. Also, it would be more about how to make a special connection with someone right for you. 

Besides some curious or concerned friends and acquaintances annoying you by asking or giving you their advice on dating, I have learned that whenever they are starting to get on your nerves, it's better to put in the effort to give them better advice. I think giving better advice also works for any situation when a friend or current foe is trying to give you advice that just doesn't work for you and is really annoying you. By doing this, you will have a nice reason to reinforce and recall something positive which came from you while effectively learning to stay happy. It's also possible that the person you are trying to relay your better advice to could become annoyed by it, too and then try to avoid speaking to you any further on the matter. Because they initiated it, if they complain about it to others behind your back then they could get laughed at. Overall, it's really a winning solution for you to put in this effort to give better advice whenever you feel annoyed by another person's advice. 

I imagine a world where people are trying to outdo each other by giving better advice. What's so great about it is that the best advice shouldn't really annoy you and that's what we should always strive to give to our friends and family. I think the world would be a happier place if everyone tried to implement this practice.