4AverageLife's Main Personal List
What did I do right today?
I am working on getting better with staying focused and not side tracked while knowing what I'm doing will be fulfilling.
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Main Personal Daily Tasks Until Completion
- Good hygiene. Expectation: my face won't break out and to also lessen worries over my teeth getting any worse. Value: feeling good about being physically presentable to others.
- Good exercise and diet. (Include stretches.) Expectation: physically feel lighter, healthier, and stronger with plenty of confidence. Value: my personal health the most and also like feeling good about improving in my workouts.
- Work on completing main projects at work. Expectation: gain more experience and to get paid for whatever amount I agreed to for it. Value: having enough salary to support my lifestyle.
- Conduct trades and investments with intent to master them. Expectation: eventually get really good at it. Value: independence financially and with time.
- Work on learning. Expectation: gain an education that will support my work and values. Value: knowledge for the sake of always looking to improve my current situation.
- Clear out daily emails. Expectation: learn something and get better at doing it. Value: not being overwhelmed by unchecked emails that are interesting for me to look at.
- Enjoy life. Expectation/Value: it's more of a reward so that's always something I would like to keep on including for myself.
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I am working on getting better with staying focused and not side tracked while knowing what I'm doing will be fulfilling.
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I think having a positive outlook in life really does help, if you connect with something that you are passionate about and are able to commit to it with some grit, all the way to completion. I think with gambling in general, it always feels like you are blindsided if things don't go well the way you perceived. A couple dumb friends are gamblers and think they have some special ability when it's really just them experiencing some short term luck. Once they have a bad outing, then they are discouraged from gambling again until they forget about the bad experience and associate it with the good things and then repeat the cycle. They are still being stupid in my opinion.
It's called gambling when in actuality while doing some math, you end up having worse odds compared to the opposition. They don't see it like that because they think they have a better strategy that will afford them bigger gains against the casino. They continue to fool themselves into thinking they will win after reinforcing their views with some practice and preparing for it with a good mindset, along with feeling like they are deserving of the spoils. These friends are degenerative risk takers, who are fueled more by living out a dream via willpower, rather than studying and confirming the cold hard facts. At least they put themselves into action and do something, even if it's hurting their finances in the long run while unwittingly helping a casino stay in business that will secretly admit to providing an entertaining service and always be open to taking their spare amounts of money.
From intuitively examining their pattern of wins and losses, they won't be getting rich off of it. First of all, their table buy-in is still too low, like always under $10,000 which they consider to be money not worth losing. They are usually invested while thinking they will be walking away a winner. They can walk out with some gains at any moment, just as they can walk out a loser. The illusion to them is that they win more if they are having a good day while they can control how much they lose. With enough experiences, it's statistically relevant for them to have a bad outing; therefore, they will keep on attending while winning, but once they lose enough they can't handle, then they will take a break from it. If they aren't playing then they can't win anything. Also, they aren't winning enough from still always betting too low to make a living off of this.
Overall, they won't ever be able to turn this into a profession even though one of them sometimes fools himself into thinking that a casino boss is out to get him. I don't know why he still justifies continuing to play and seeks out different casinos, if there's a chance it can still feel like being out of control for him.
It's a losing game for them both because the casino generally has a slight edge on expected gains over a coin flip after charging a nominal fee for each game. The casino is always playing the long term odds because they are smart and know this will always keep them in business. Each game is independent from each other and my friends like to combine them all into one session. They are really fooled by their own aspirations and continue to not fully realize how the casino can make money off of everyone. They like to think they are the lucky ones, which is probably how the casinos would want to convince enough people, so I'm grouping these friends into a class of degenerative entrepreneurs.
My opinion about these friends is that there are better people to associate with more regularly. I'm going to say it's the same for Crazy Lee, some of her people I clashed with, and the majority of recipients I send this email to. It's likely going to feel like a waste of time eventually, since their interests fueled by their views and passions don't necessarily balance out enough with good reason. If they want to know the reason why a lot of people they like don't really hang out with them anymore, then it's because they aren't noticing something about themselves yet and not putting in enough courage and time to seek the proper help while improving themself.
