4AverageLife's Main Personal List
I'm understanding a pretty decent approach.
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order for dealing with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
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End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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What did I do right today?
I'm understanding a pretty decent approach.
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I think a cool thing to realize is what you truly desire in life. If you don't know, then you aren't really living or just have been so stressed out, sick, or tired to the point of not knowing what to do for yourself next. In those moments, it's probably nice to seek help or follow your heart to the point of realizing what you want to do.
I think there are good and bad people out there. Friends can sometimes be annoyingly bad, too. I put my full and complete trust in the Lord, which has developed over time. Even though I don't fully understand God's nature and want to think really weird sometimes, I always feel this satisfaction and a great sense of peace from believing in the Lord's ways. I try to find out daily from going through the Bible. I have a reading list that is considered to be traditionally chronological, so it does not follow exactly how all the books are arranged in the Bible. I have found this to be easier in organizing details about what's going on in the Bible because it's really important for me to try to find out its true context besides relating it loosely to other things. I prefer to pursue after understanding what God originally intended besides letting my thoughts get in the way and try to make this an excuse to make my own interpretation that I would like others to accept over what the original meaning may have been.
So basically with all the crazy people who were jerks back then and said they were trying to help me while they were mad and about holding onto their own opinions so tightly, I think the best strategy to use against them is to bring their poor example to light with others and also tell them to tell others about it, which they probably won't because they don't want to make themselves feel bad while looking negative to others. It's like some natural human reaction where people try to be emotionally intelligent if you do this to them. In a sense, this is good because my purpose is to be a better friend to them than they were to me. I believe it's my calling from God to do this. In a sense, I don't call it manipulation but presenting the truth in a way that could harm their social reputation and make them take a few steps back to examine how they are and to fix it on their own to make themselves better next time.
The way to do all this I suggested is to have a stronger mind than them by making yourself more emotionally intelligent. It's about having this inner strength and I believe it's a necessity for being a true man. To grow stronger mentally, it also means to not have any stress about going through this process. Take breaks as you need to and work on what you want to accomplish. This is what I want to do, so it doesn't matter to me if you agree with me or not. This is my calling and it has nothing to do with anyone else and this is what I believe. It's not a big thing to want to be friends and say that you are better than some crazy people and to let others around them know this. It's actually funny and interesting social circumstances to instigate. The fact that I had something for people to go crazy about with me and for me to not really care what they think and for me to still be friends from saying it's my calling, I don't think I'm at a bad place with what I want if it's not stressing me out and I'm still happy where I'm at, even if this doesn't happen.
I say for all those who disagree that the laws should change and be manipulated in a selfish manner for crazy people to do whatever they feel like even if they feel you deserve it from having done wrong. I am about discussing this with them and telling them to tell others what I discussed with them, which they probably won't so I get to have a good laugh about it! I don't think you should join their side because you might go through something that's unnecessary and not be able to talk your way out of it and wouldn't want to recommend you to go book a therapy session.
