Basically, it's about trying very hard to be happy when the thought of working hard in the moment you are stuck in becomes really boring. For myself, I am a dude- regardless of whether people want to call me a happy dude or not; I am a man; therefore, being a man, I have to get situated in dealing with many uncomfortable situations that women can't even handle. Life is what you make of it; the answer isn't to really think about how hard or easy it is- the saying goes you reap what you sow.
No matter how painful and needy I become from being bored, I need to just suck it in and put myself in a comatose state so that I will endure the boring feeling I am having. I'm just going to have to accept that I am a boring person when those situations arrive where I'm tempted to become stupid to make myself laugh temporarily before I regret ever having got myself into the situation. I guess I don't really care what other people do to look stupid that much- as long as we are alive and healthy and trying to make some sort of effort to be happy, I guess it really doesn't matter how annoying that person gets even though everybody might start cheering the day he clears out his desk to leave his job.