4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
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What did I do right today?
I have made an important connection for myself with dating.
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It looks like I finally had a successful zero date with someone after a long time and being pretty conscientious about what I was doing. A lot of it really deals with agreeing on the main important things and being able to meet the end of the other person on what creates chemistry for them.
Some people are ultra cool whereas some might be quite shallow about wanting a person to look a certain way. They really can't help themselves being that way and it does feel offensive but what can you really do about it. I think it's better to just accept and be understanding of them while moving on from it.
For my own happiness, I have realized that letting go of my own superficial concerns is helping me to be myself and be more open-minded to dating random ladies who are interested. It really doesn't matter to me about appearances anymore. I'm willing to always give it a chance if I'm available.
So with this one girl who gets attracted to me sometimes and also quite overweight, I think she looks like a young cutie still when she straightens out her natural curls. I don't think she's someone I want to fall in love with and not because of anything shallow. It really just has to do with my own dating preferences.
I'm starting to realize for myself that superficial preferences are shallow and offensive to me, but some people are still going to try to justify themselves over it. There's nothing I can do about it and I'm probably not going to be with them anyway so it helps me out with my own frustration to call them shallow and then try to be both accepting and understanding of it.
