4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
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What did I do right today?
I figured out something that may help me a lot in particular with annoying situations that bother me a lot from what some friends do to me sometimes.
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I've had some friends just be really annoying by being persistent about wanting to give me advice over areas that I have no interest in discussing with them about. They seem to have a hard time picking up my friendly clues and think that they have something great to offer me. I can be turned off by people who come across as confident with their one size fits all approach and like to discuss my personal life that I always feel uncomfortable talking about.
I've learned something that works so well for me from a recent date with a decent woman who turned out to have something weird about her, which made her call off any more future dates after having some second thoughts about it. Oh well, nobody's perfect.
The trick I learned is to look to give the best advice that I can give for that friend on the same topic if he or she is bugging me with their own advice. It has worked out very well for my personality and is the right fit for me, so I don't really need to get so antsy about it anymore, which I think is very uncharacteristic of me.
From putting this into use, the friend isn't in the mood to talk about it with me anymore. She gets annoyed with me telling her my own advice, so I've made my point with her effectively by telling her she does it to others as well. She really can't complain about it either behind my back and probably has been thrown back by it.
In addition, this approach is working for me as well when I'm feeling angry with any individual. It doesn't matter if the person wants to listen to me or not. I'm happy to be affirming my own personal identity wisely in a confident manner.
I've finally cracked this mystery for myself that has made me feel so negative about having personal relationships all these years.
It really came from going on a date with a lady who portrayed herself as someone decent and initially interested in me! I have some interest now in going on more of these dates with these expendable women.
