4AverageLife's Main Personal List
I skipped to the last step without realizing there's pre-steps to get to it. There you have it. These are the cards that everyone should play at their own disposal. Piece of cake until you introduce some game theory into your strategy and that part is going to be private intellectual property because obviously, we're all going for the big W.
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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What did I do right today?
I am grateful to have a life that I can work on improving to build a happy life and to keep on growing from there.
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By bothersome conflict, I mean anything that is of nuisance to you. Even with me just sending a message like this to you that you probably have blocked off from thinking it's so annoying, this could even be a nuisance and conflict.
First thing is to see if you can compromise with it. If you're blocking me off which is a sign of passive aggressive behavior and a form of non-physical, conceptual violence, then it's already a problem in itself. For me this is a bothersome conflict, and I see it as an annoying problem that doesn't even have to be there in the first place.
I've done all I can with trying to compromise with my antagonists like going up to talk about it and trying to be agreeable but they are always being so passive aggressive with me and coming across as very annoying people, I'm surprised that I still haven't picked up a gun to do some target practice while imagining all their faces on it.
With the first step being unattainable, the next step is to apply some wise techniques. My specialty is guilt-tripping. Next step, it's to clearly state what you want. I want my antagonists to stop thinking so negatively and force themselves to stop acting so passive aggressive around me by yelling and telling me to stop certain behavior like talking about something and acting so flustered about it because I won't. This is passive aggressive behavior and clearly a state of mind where they could go talk to a life counselor about it. Also, the main points never even dealt with us personally, so I don't know why they have to get so defensive about it in a narcissistic sense. Just relax. I'm pretty good at guilt tripping like I said in the second sentence of this paragraph.
Final step is to look forward to compromising to reach a satisfying agreement for everyone. This is the part where people show forth their selfish and narcissistic sides from being filled with negativity and frustrations that they aren't thinking straight about.
