Learning To Laugh At Small Conflicts

4AverageLife's Main Personal List

1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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Current philosophical approach:

1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.

2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.

3. I have four affirmations that go in order for dealing with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:

1. Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
2. Always put on a good show.
3. Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
4. Be funny! 

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What did I do right today?

Mainly, it's a matter of self-control through self-realization and self-discipline and not being codependent about any outcome that would be favorable for you.

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From finding proper balance and thinking about my past and how I could have been a big meanie back then, of course I think it's funny! Just having a good laugh about the situation is really helping me forget about the annoyances and problems someone was giving me. It's just funny to act up over something that is perceived to be a tiny thing, like being petty. 

My best friend's sister has a mental and personality disorder. It's really sad and she's never going to fully recover from it. She's her own adult with impaired judgement and very lazy about actively thinking for herself. She gets more depressed with herself from feeling codependent about not reaching a goal she wants and also feeling held back. It's a really miserable state to be in and all you can do is just feel sad and try to relate while accepting the situation and moving on from it. There's not much I can do to help her right now. She's done the best she could, which I'll say is about average from having a family support system but it's not anything highly remarkable. That's just where fate led her, and I think a great boarding house would be of good assistance.

My best friend associates it with abandoning her sister and other bad news, which doesn't have to be like that, if it's a luxurious home which I would feel encouraged to visit often honestly, especially if I paid for it! She then complains about overpaying for the service, but there would really be not much negative things to complain about anymore besides the money. I already told her that I will respect her decision. I think she's pretty much relented to the situation and is just growing older and more stressed out and more prideful while not really making any bigger impact that she would like to from having other concerns that are holding her back. 

Honestly, my best friend is just a crazy person sometimes who can hang out well with others. I believe I have a special calling to be with her and be of assistance while making both of us happy being with each other.