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I am reflecting on the right tasks to do.
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order for dealing with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
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What did I do right today?
I am reflecting on the right tasks to do.
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My new philosophical approach that I have added to the above template is more like mental tools that I acquired from being lucky with what I exposed myself to. The art of really listening comes from clearing your mind and letting your mind easily focus on the words being communicated and not having any fast bad reaction to it. It feels like it's more on the basis of good habit forming. There are cues that can cause you to go haywire, so these are things you need to have self-realization and some self-discipline over to control any negative responses.
I'm calling this new philosophical approach Mind Tech! Also, it's mainly catered to me but it's fun to write about and also I dedicate my work to the Lord! It's really become an underlying factor to always maintaining balance and not being influenced by others, circumstances, nor the environment. The only reason why I may adjust my actions periodically is because I'm just trying to be nice or from accepting it as reasonable advice!
I used to hate advice but that was from how I was bordering on toxic independence from having negative experiences with my mom. My mom just says she's doing good for me but doesn't know how much it will really help me. I'm now communicating while being slightly more or less than the middle setting of toxic independence and codependency. It's really working well and this could be my running theme, along with my living faith in Jesus which is the main contributor for bringing me to my true callings in this world and my entire life.
