Letter and Notes Dealing with offended Christian leaders

Example letter:

Dear _____,

You recently stated your decision-making personal preferences dealing with people. I am largely bothered by how it affects me emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. (Please let me finish) I think you should reconsider the values of serving in a ministry. Excluding outsiders and me from your normal events, such as unfolded in social networking sites like Facebook is a sign that you are a falling leader (or person). You ought to not be making a public declaration that you would sacrifice unity for the sake of pleasing your personal comforts. Perhaps, spiritual mentorship over men is not your forte and so maybe you would want to exclude your Bible study group to only women or only suggesting, give your title to someone equipped to serve the purposes of God with better clarity.

Questions:

1. Birthday, books, relationship, hobbies discussed in caregroup.
2. Personal preference outweighs the interest of another person/ or for ministry.
**3. When would you hypothetically block another person and was my conduct worth it?
Trying to forgive but causing friction. Not going to convey a positive meaning to others without being open to each other.
4. If I saw your account through another friend and left a comment would you mind?
5. Do you feel your emotions are always stable?
6. Do you distrust what others will write and want me not to see it?
7. Are you using your own moral standards because you don't want to change?
8. Do you feel like I'm attacking your moral dignity?
9. Do you think I am too unpredictable?
10. Would would you have me done to make you feel comfortable? Can you put it into words that describe outward behaviors?
11. When you say "Ignore it", do you mean that for only your happiness?
12. Is it just not rejecting a person's passive style that's not so everyday while something bad was hapening to you?
13. Do you have good intentions with your personal preference?
14. You social interactions including personal preferences appear selfish, if they aren't what are they?
15. Your personal preferences dealing with people appear that you are selective to those who you find perfect, is that the right way for you to conduct yourself?

You can feel uncomfortable with yourself with a guilty conscience, and so how can you avoid yourself with that personal preference? As a result, how do you use personal preference of discomfort with someone who claim to be comfortable with, but has made you feel uncomfortable? Example: bad present, bad joke, bad hair day!