Life is not really as it is if people start giving you a hard time and you backfire on them with something nonviolent. That's really hard to deal with. There are sometimes breaks in a relationship that occur no matter how hard you try to avoid it. Suffering can still take place in this area. It's all about learning to let go through a forgiving attitude and be willing to accept the truth through the ears of others first before implanting them with your own opinions.
I've had situations where I would get really short-fused with others and filled with adrenaline because I seriously did no harm to them. I would then avoid them for long periods of time.