Now I realize that when some of my friends talk about having girl problems then maybe it's because they're not really worthy of being with someone nice. What I notice is that if a guy is complaining to friends about something then it's only going to make the situation worse for the guy and isn't going to be solving anything. However, I see a more healthier way of coming up with a solution; it's basically to just cope with the feelings and continue living a productive and happy life the best way one can.
I see it like how it all naturally just fits and one just needs to have a good eye for catching the great things. If a guy just feels pressured in the wrong area in life and goes in a really selfish path or keeping to himself then he's going to pretty much stress himself out and feel depressed about some things.
Playing things at face value and being direct in any matter isn't going to exaggerate any situation; neither is the approach taken going to be really denounced all of a sudden. I believe that a guy is just supposed to make sense and have some meaning in his life. What I'm also becoming more accepting is that some people are just born to not reach personal goals in life. To me, this doesn't mean for me to place pity on them; it just means to me that it's life and some people just have to learn to deal more than others.
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