Monday, March 30, 2015

Body Image Post

I don't really show it from having learned to carry on while feeling stressed, but I have been dealing with some self-confidence issues from being a man at the height of only 5' 3" 1/4. I think I put my height down as 5' 9" on match.com for laughs and still don't get any views. I've been trying to force myself to grow taller even at the age of 31 going on to be 32! I guess women can't help being attracted to certain types of things and that's just the way it's going to be then.

A lot of my personal insecurity has been from feeling occasionally worried that I won't have enough women interested in a dating relationship type of thing with me. Now that I think of it, if a woman is insecure about a man's height then I might as well not make fun of her and move on. I feel like bagging on the majority of women right now, but no one is perfect anyway.

What I'm noticing is that short men are considered sexy too by gay men. I have a buddy whose shorter than me. Yes, a fully-grown adult male is shorter than me, and I hang out with him! We go on those crazy rides at Six Flags because we meet the height requirement still and have so much fun. It's a shame some tall people can't handle those rides.

Basically, I did a little research and it looks like a shorter man with more money than his taller friend is going to attract a pretty girl. Go figure, there's more than one way to approach a woman still. In conclusion, if the man is short he can still have a beautiful wife from being successful, funny, and smart. Kevin Hart is only 5' 2" for a black man, and I'm taller than him too so that gives me confidence that I should work hard to be a millionaire with a six-pack. I believe that I can do it, and it's my ultimate, personal goal right now.