What seems to be working a lot is that there's really no need to feel sad about not being able to obtain some things. In a sense, it's a waiting game to get somewhere and you should be doing the best you can until you find yourself lucky enough to get there. This is pretty much my belief. By giving it your all while keeping a constant cool head of positivity after realizing reality will get you places.
What helps with the validity of positivity is the justification of these good things actually happening to you to keep you thriving and being mindful about these details. Being positive, self-confident, and hard working really is a lifestyle. It really starts all from the attitude.
