My belief is that it's very lame and shallow to keep on dwelling on things that you don't really have any control over. There's sometimes things you can't change with your appearance and also things that aren't there being something you mope about.
These types of people are pretty lousy to be around and a couple of my friends have been in this state of mind while voicing their frustrations.
I'm not surprised with how they are anymore.
With me having my opinion and willing to live this way with a high sense of confidence and willingness to grow as a person through hard work, I guess I really do have it going.