4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
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I've been describing my relationship with a close friend. It turns out that I believe she has true feelings for me. I don't know when it happened but she's told me that she really likes me a lot, has a soft spot for me, and even loves me consecutively whenever there was a repeated and similar conflict between us. She's always been the one to bring it up with me.
I didn't get for a while what she was so bothered by with me because I kept on unwittingly repeating it and she was pretty bad about explaining it while being so emotionally restless and just venting about it with me. I didn't see it for the longest time because it's like you had to see it under your nose with some clues. I probably didn't really want to or ruled out this possibility naturally because I was thinking she was just being annoying.
From just talking to her, I finally came to some intuition and stated that it's not really about the actions that count but also what you could be feeling. She confirmed this. I never thought my words would have so much weight but it really does to her. I mean I fully accept her and am very open-minded about being in a serious and physically intimate relationship with her. She doesn't know this and I don't wish to reveal it like that. It's a little complicated since she's in another relationship. It's a been-there-and-done-that situation. I don't think it's going to be hard at all to respect her in this area for the rest of my life, even if I am mad at her. I don't ever need to stoop that low, now that I really know. I'm good at holding my tongue especially if I already know it's going to mean the end of the world for someone.
I have no clue how many I sent to go see a therapist by now, but I could have contributed to a few already without really knowing. She's one of them, and it's a shame because I now know that she has strong feelings for me. It's also about how I believe I would always be with her if she wanted me to.
It was difficult to discern with all her emotional buildup and excess colorful words flying at me all this time, but she never wants to feel let down with a text message that makes her feel disrespected which comes from me. It really makes her feel excess stress and guilt. It took a long time to realize this, and I'm glad she was patient enough to stick around to hopefully communicate it someday properly with me. She was close to revealing it in simple terms last time it happened, but it was enough for me to finally pick up on it this time without her having to tell me so directly. I think she was on her last legs there too.
