I guess writing on this blog has helped me develop plenty of confidence when it comes to texting women. The funny part is that I feel like a girl when I am writing to them now. I just feel like the transition that is taking place feels really feminine for some reason- I guess I try to adapt into their level of speech and sort of understand what they are trying to convey.
The fun part about it is that there's no need to feel so anti-social through being nervous about something. I guess when that part of you comes out and others sort of sense that insecurity then it's going to mean to them that something is wrong with you and then they might just ban you from their life!