Feeling For A Buddy

I think my buddy lacks confidence from having raised himself to place so much expectation on himself that he isn't supposed to fail the first time. He basically believes money is king in a relationship but feels he does not have enough which I think is preposterous but I can't change his mind about it. His personality is a little weak as he used to feel most women are unworthy to be approached because of their craziness; he has basically been living by casting outside blame and not taking a direct approach from not wanting the added responsibilities. His next step is thinking about his abilities in providing enough money for the family he would raise. He also likes to consider every worst case scenarios as much as possible. He has sometimes been discouraged by seeing others becoming short-handed after pursuing something.

I personally think women are social creatures who need emotional support along side with a partner who can share his personal resources such as his own time to benefit any good or bad situation. The quirks are pretty much what every guy might go after during dating to have some fun!