I've watched this T.V. show about relationships and the attractive female star of the show said that guys being attracted to a girl's physical appearance is primal and very important to developing a relationship with the soul mate. She then gives typical advice on how the guy shouldn't focus on certain body parts of a woman he's dating right away and that he should manage a reasonable amount of eye contact; it must make some women feel awkward and unattended to while making a self-note that the guy isn't ready for a truly self-fulfilling commitment to a great relationship- basically, the guy might look at other girls too and give the girl he's dating the wrong impression even though the guy wants to selfishly get perverted and mental pleasure out of staring at eye candy and still keep the one he's with!
I'm starting to think that communicating your desires fully no matter how crazy or offended the girl may become is the best way to eventually work something out with the right person. Just holding it back and being shy about it isn't going to make the situation any better no matter how much effort you put into the little things with the person, like just greeting her. That's so funny some people butted into my personal relationships with girls and became angry or scared when their advice wasn't panning out the way it did and made the situation worse because I wasn't listening to them. They turned out to be morally wrong and it had pretty bad consequences for them, meaning they ran away from the crowd they originally sided with. It got really that crazy for them and they panicked a whole lot underneath. I was a really scary person to them because I became frustrated over my shyness with some strange female Christians.
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