With all the offenses people have done to me, it's usually been about them not sticking to some good manners. Plenty of them lack self-control while going through some emotional drama. I realize that it really gets me furious but at the same time, I want to do more by encouraging them to grow as a person. I now understand myself better and the answer.
For all their complaints and unhappy mannerisms, they are really the ones being a problem to themselves. They are the ones who have a mental condition while dealing with something stressful and lashing out in a capricious and grumpy manner. How they can go about fixing this is to grow as a person.
I didn't really know all this time and I kept on failing to see it in my personal and selfish fights to do low-level social justice with these estranged peers. Now I understand myself so much better and what I really stand for. I guess I'm just another okay fellow in this world.