Acquiring Main Purpose

  4AverageLife's Main Personal List

1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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What did I do right today?

I believe that I have acquired true feelings of love for someone.

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Currently, my main purpose is to work hard and enjoy life while continually growing at being a positive-filled, humble, and strong man. For the annoying people who walked out on me, I think I influenced them so in a way I can think that I sort of served as a role model for them, since it was originally a reversed role. They became like angry ignoramuses and destroyed main forms of contact with me while acting passive aggressive. It's funny how they thought they knew enough to guide me along, but they never did. They still have some work left to do for their own mental and emotional states of well-being. 

I've learned a mental strategy that if you reframe anything negative into the positives then you can be at a calmer state of mind, which will lead you to solving some conflict or dealing with some lingering issues. When it comes to influencing my antagonists later in a good way, it's going to be more about my actions speaking louder. What I hope in the end is that I did everything I can to be inspirational for them and to also portray a Rhadamanthine-like persona where I'm not accepting any excuses and that they should remind themselves to put in the effort to restore their low levels of serotonin from being totally stressed out by me and using others in their environment to influence their positive development. 

The main thing that I haven't employed is using others around them who they socialize with to complain about others in a narcissistic manner. These people they like to reach out to will be the ones who will be constantly pressed. With me taking this formative approach, they will probably wear themselves out or inadvertently be supportive with my cause which could also leave my antagonists feeling frustrated and/or abandoned. It might be that they could go through suffering a bout of narcissism and will need to convince themselves to go about reinventing themselves in a socially positive manner, even though it will be a painful journey for them.   

I personally see it as a good time of personal reflection and finding out about yourself more in an objective manner.