Happy 4th of July

4AverageLife's Main Personal List

1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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Main Personal Daily Tasks Until Completion

1. Good hygiene.
2. Good exercise and diet. (Include stretches.)
3. Work on completing main projects at work.
4. Conduct trades and investments with intent to master them.
5.  Work on learning.
6. Clear out daily emails. 
7. Enjoy life.

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What did I do right today?

I am reminding myself by utilizing mental strategies on staying happy and working towards achieving success.

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What's great about taking some online classes on a different topic I'm interested in like finance is that it's really giving me a greater perspective on my intuition. I can see how I can use my background in software engineering and handling computer technology may be of assistance later on. 

What I'm reminded most of is staying focused on the most important things and to keep a growth mindset, along with some positive dreams to keep you moving in life. Sometimes, it can take a while to gather information but it looks like it's real-life to go back and examine yourself on how you can make some improvements. 

I feel lucky in that I am big on self-improvement and being an appropriate person who is willing to take some risks on silly people sometimes. Along the way, I've built relationships with a few good ones along with still managing some bad ones. It really makes sense now with how I had a small scuffle with some people, which I don't feel bad about anymore because they were all just being annoying to me. I just tried to put in effort to tolerate their actions, but it got to the point that I was so irate about it that I ended up criticizing their behavior in a passive manner while trying to limit myself from being insensitive and they were too sensitive or selfish to figure out how they could own up to it. 

This whole area of what to reveal and how to approach it was something I had no idea how to approach. I was very blinded to how to say it and none in my close circle ever took notice of my attempts while being able to get my attention and then give me the right advice. I really had to find the inspiration myself, and now I believe I can give it to others now.

My whole thing is pretty much summed up in two things right now.

 

The first is doing your best to give better advice whenever the advice of someone else annoys you a lot. This will at least give you a moment to consider what they are saying, even if you want to be rash while emotionally charged. I've had a friend be annoying with me by trying to give me advice and then dismissing everything I said. It was very irritating when I found his advice to be unsettling. What I learned from this is that instead of fighting what's bugging you in the moment, it's better to do your best to at least give a better opinion about it. If it still ends up being advice you can't beat, then at least you can calm yourself down after having considered trying to beat it. 

For the annoying friend who would just be dismissive, I don't think I was making the effort to best him which would have been better for my mental health. I was trying to be open-minded to his suggestions, but they just kept on bugging me so much. I now know to use this mental technique for myself because I know it's been tested and works for me. When I personally use this approach on annoying people, they don't become so annoying to me anymore. 

I don't recall my second thing at the moment right now from being in a worked trance. I think it's to put in some effort whenever you have to keep yourself in a happy state of mind. This way, you can stay focused with being in a good place and not really have to pick fights about petty affairs.