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I'm starting to brainstorm a possibly useful technique that was always under my nose.
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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I'm starting to brainstorm a possibly useful technique that was always under my nose.
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For dealing with people who turn passive aggressive while talking about something they don't want to discuss, I think it would be good to consider the values and expectations of the identified conflict. There's also a negative social impression that you can put pressure on them with.
Even though you probably won't be able to restore the relationship to how it was before if there are too many differences that can't be resolved, you still can come to a better understanding of each other and also come to a happy compromise with one another. It really comes down to having the proper mindset and a resolvable goal in mind. It's a great part of how much you value reaching this goal you have with someone and what you expect out of it.
Introducing a negative social image as context might work to a great degree if the person you are talking to becomes unpleasant or confrontational. It's like priming them with negative details about them that they can't really defend around others, when it's brought up. In all fairness, it's like trying to guilt trip them. Analogously speaking, it's sort of in a way impressing upon them a negative emotional effect with momentum like how evenly spaced dominos will keep falling one after another, after the first one falls.
By offering them better advice that's recognized like this along with them perceiving their social image to be bad with how they are conducting and letting this out in the open, I think they are likely to not act out in a rude manner anymore even if they are feeling so impulsive. I would like to test this hypothesis someday on a group that I believe qualifies for me since we've had personal interactions. There is this email chain that has some of these qualified individuals. I've been writing to them and sharing with intentions of priming them up in some way, out of having great interest in experiencing these types of social-psychological exchanges.
