Finding a Wonderful Life Partner

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1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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What did I do right today?

I feel like I lucked out with the opportunity of a partner I can be fully content with.

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I believe that I've found the right partner who I can be fully content with building a better life. We're both onboard with it as it's a dream goal for us. What I've learned is that it requires more of a growth mindset instead of a fixed mindset that relies on your natural abilities. Also, from having this proper mindset, it really won't ever tire you out or make you feel frustrated in building your relationship with your significant other.

It wasn't a matter of it just happening naturally but more like mutually coming to this realization and agreement of loving each other. Being a short dude and all while feeling like I didn't grow up with the proper background and all this negativity associated with pursuing after happiness is really unnecessary. No one is really going to be able to tell you how to succeed because most don't really have it all together to begin with or have never been able to try hard enough to be inspirational with you. 

It's also like you have to go through this learning process individually on your own, which is what makes you human. I am fortunate to have found a few of these free online courses, and the knowledge I have obtained from studying them at an intense pace for a short duration have been paying off dividends. 

For all the annoying friends who thought they could mentor me while turning narcissistic when I disagreed with their ideas, I feel what works best with them is that you just have to make the effort there to offer them your better advice which will make them stop being annoying with you. Why should you be bothered by great advice which is what they thought and became narcissistic about when they faced some passive aggressive resistance. Instead of doing this which is probably frowned upon, I believe they will get annoyed from hearing better advice from me after they initiated the discussion so the smarter and selfish ones might decide to shy away from it in future discussions. Furthermore, I think if they decide to complain about it behind my back then there's a good reason for others to have a good laugh about it at their expense.