Happy New Year's Day

4AverageLife's Main Personal List

1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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Main Personal Daily Tasks Until Completion

1. Good hygiene.
2. Good exercise and diet. (Include stretches.)
3. Work on completing main projects at work.
4. Conduct trades and investments with intent to master them.
5.  Work on learning.
6. Clear out daily emails. 
7. Enjoy life.

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What did I do right today?

I hope everyone is having a nice New Year's Day! 

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I see a huge difference in my mentality now. It's not very depressing at all and not dependent on any circumstances. What's great is that even though my best friend is worse than me, I'm still cool about hanging out with her. I mean I hope she improves, but if not, I'll still be her best friend and be supportive and all that good stuff! 

I'm glad that I have a much more resilient mind now and how it's just feeling good for me. I'm just going to give all the credit to the Lord! 

I hope everybody is ready for a great new year and that they will keep on working on what they have already or finally establish it. For my best friend's sister, I feel bad for her. She has a mood disorder because she suffers from schizophrenia and it impairs her critical thinking and decision making skills while making her unhappy. She's only going to be able to do so much, but I think the best thing to do is to wait for her to feel well and then encourage her to develop better habits and continue to see her therapist. I think the window of opportunity is going to be small. What's also crazy is that the medication she's taking doesn't really work. I think her family just has a learned mental disorder, so it's hard to do well with them in general. 

Anyways, I'm okay with being a failure while always trying not to be even though it won't be enough. I'm suddenly no longer codependent which is a good thing because I can allow my mind to think much more clearly and find a working solution. 

Something new I learned is telling stories to make my point. It's like making someone the hero of the story and taking a problem while going on an exciting journey and to come to the resolution. It should be no more than three minutes and should be at least 30 seconds. This is something I would like to practice for effective communication.