I don't like envisioning myself doing crazy stuff while I'm uncontrollably angry. It just feels better to be funny about stuff and calm myself down to the point of being nice. I guess it really comes down to how comfortable I feel with the other person being dumb with me then.
I can see how I made a lot of insecure people show their true colors of becoming passive aggressive with me now. I should have just not talked about something. I'm not going to bring it up even if I feel like turning it into a discussion because I'm concerned about people's health. I'm only going to bring it up with people who have experienced it already with me and keep it to that level and not make it go any bigger.