I'm really not so worried about having to watch out for myself to just be accepted in a social crowd. I guess getting to be around the right type of people can take some time, so I believe it's normal to depart casually from certain groups.
From comparing some beautiful photos of famous women and their current state, I have noticed that the visual enjoyment of them being attractive didn't really retain itself. It's like just because a woman is pretty, it shouldn't really be the only reason for me to want to marry her. The physical beauty from being young isn't going to last! There's just no way for a real-life woman to compete with an air-brushed photo.