I know how to give some people who I feel bothered by a really hard time. The hard thing that I'm having a hard time with is not giving them a hard time. I don't want to go overboard basically because I don't want to look stupid over a situation that isn't fortunate for me, but petty.
One of my few excuses that I can fight formidably with is just being sarcastic and using humor. Actually that's not the only thing I can use. I have pretty good memory to the point that it looks like I didn't let go of it. If I couple that with humor and sarcasm and then load it up, I'm basically being a happy brat to them.
I'm not really that bad to deal with once I vent and let go, so it's pretty hard to see that for people who are struggling in life.