Maybe I should recommend some anger management classes for that girl who failed to extend a restraining order on me. I think the biggest drawback that I face is that I feel stressed out at the thought of approaching her to just talk about getting back in shape with her. The fact that I just stood there like a dummy and didn't do anything while she was going off on me doesn't really look right at all.
With the irritation levels so high, by me not expressing myself in that manner back at them and acting nice with them, I made them treat me unfairly.