4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now have this undying love and companionship with her and maintain being a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
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What did I do right today?
I showed up for work to do my routine and honor my responsibilities.
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Right now, my heart is feeling very open-minded about being in love with a close female friend. I really do happily accept everything about her, and she's the first person who I admitted this to. It just makes me feel a lot happier to have this form of acceptance with mindfulness. She's moving out of state so I will be seeing her less often but we are more than likely going to visit each other. She is a very special connection that I developed over the years. We're both so different but able to get along so well. It is just amazing how she's the first person who admitted her struggles and wanted to work out things that were bugging her with me, while being patient because there were multiple incidents where I couldn't comprehend her. With the last time, she was still all over the place but fortunately, I was finally able to piece it together.
From knowing her personality, she's pretty much attached to me so she would have stressed out even more and still not cut ties with me if I didn't hear her out enough but I'm willing to always comply or meet her close enough in the middle. I believe that she is so deserving of this from me. It helps to know that I really do have boundaries myself, which took me a while to self-acknowledge after not knowing why a few people who stopped being friends with me were still making me feel so angry whenever I was reminded of them.
Once I came to this realization on my own, I was able to accept that my boundaries were overstepped by them and then move on right away with a blank page. It's easier for me than most people to do this. I feel a lot more freedom and can even respect their selfish wishes that might still feel a little disrespectful to me without holding any grudges on them. I just need to communicate with them to find out what they are desiring with the outcome of our working relationships. It's pretty healthy for me to be willing to honor and be able to laugh at their more bad character compared to mine.
