4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now have this undying love and companionship with her and maintain being a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
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What am I grateful for?
- A decent head on my shoulder.
- Making some consistent money on the side with my trades and investments.
- I developed a special ability to truly move on from anything in my current life.
- Finally having a very close friend who I am open-minded about being in a serious relationship with.
- Having a life where I feel mostly up and can prioritize my time based on what I feel like doing and improve upon myself.
- I have learned to be open-minded.
- I have a strong moving on capability from realizing high-level and low-level energy.
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What did I do right today?
I am learning more about myself and what makes me truly happy with the current situation I'm in.
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It looks like I don't really care that much about any woman I want to be with being so beautiful outwardly. I don't need that attribute in her to be physically attracted to her. It may be a little weird but my physical love drive is very strong and doesn't require much to get it activated. I have also become very open-minded about being with any woman. I'm not going to lie that it does suck to be with a woman who is towards the end of her life. It's going to feel like it drags too much, so maybe I'll just keep on staying nice to those old ladies.
To give myself a greater shot with dating high quality ladies, I'm working on increasing my financial health to the point where I wouldn't have to worry about money anymore while feeling free to do whatever I want with my time and not be limited to anything or feel submitted to something and dependent on it for my happiness. I just want to feel like a free spirit when it comes to working for my own money!
Along with working on making lots of money, I want to have a great level of personal fitness along with doing some reading and socializing at interesting events or people I want to try connecting with. Overall it does make sense to leverage my perceived weakness in physical appearance with some ladies from being not that popular of a male Asian and short by making myself successful by becoming rich and working on my personality more with basically not flipping the handle while working through any enraging or selfish thoughts that enter my mind about anyone.
From applying an emotional technique of keeping my angry feelings in check and identifying/exchanging any bad feelings for good ones, it's helping me to keep a smooth relationship going with a lady friend I've gotten close to and thinks completely different compared to me while we keep hanging out like we're a close-knit family. It's definitely hard work and does feel a little stressful but it's these feelings that I'm managing to always exchange for a noble one while still hanging out with her regularly. We have had our short breaks but she's been nice enough to work on putting it behind her.
It looks like I'm more mature than she is and it probably is expected because I'm older than her. Having this close friendship with her and dealing with these weird feelings of love and annoyance while dealing with these guy feelings I get sometimes around her is giving me the experience I need to build relationships that I want to keep!
