Well for the first part, I see some of my past situations as just freak accidents now. It's nothing really bad really to the point where I have to hide everything. I think it's just better that I don't really bring it up with people about my past. I'm now a lot more comfortable with accepting everything and moving on. Also, I don't see anything wrong with revisiting some disgruntled people and persuading them to put aside their differences with me now.