Honestly, the challenges of being in love will be tested sometimes, and it's the best thing to love someone who's greater than you, which is the Lord and seek Him so that you can love your spouse unconditionally. That's pretty much how you can keep on loving your wife or husband so much in a nutshell.
It really comes down to listening well and interpreting the comments and advice really well to the point of accepting it or not. What I have found out is that for a man, when it comes to books that go into picking up women, they might plug into your head with some creative ideas for opportunities in meeting beautiful women, but it's really about how well he can please the woman. For even greater attraction, he can provide her with love and affection that just turns her on.
What I'm noticing is that it really comes down to pairing up well and just falling in love with each other. How a man acts with one lady may be loved or avoided depending on who she is. It definitely requires a little bit of intelligence and letting go of negative experiences, which can be quite a challenge for drop-out college students. Oh I forgot to notice, the man should be able to please the lady with everything he already has and be able to excite her with love and affection. This can make for creating a very pleasurable experience in a marriage.
So yeah, if the woman falls for the man despite his shortcomings or unfortunate looks, then it's quite possible.