4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
I'm just grateful to the Lord Jesus for dying on the cross to pay for our sins and with God providing the Holy Spirit to convict us of our sins, along with His mercy to allow us to always confess our sins and go for turning away from them. Christ is risen!
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I give thanks to the Lord for having a slightly better understanding of how to study. I used to dread studying so much, and I think a lot of it really came from experiencing reader fatigue fast. It would be frustrating to read sentences out loud in your head without moving your mouth and then not catch what it meant. It can still get this way a lot even when I only try to listen to my Bible app! I keep on doing it only because of putting my faith in Jesus.
Alas, I finally found a natural solution to alleviate this conundrum. I'm giving credit to the Lord for allowing me to study for one of the world's hardest IT exams. The best part is that I'm enjoying it, so I just naturally came up with something that's more efficient. I'm not here to sell anything. All of this is something that I can mindlessly explain here like it's no big deal. The only catch is that it will probably make up only a few sentences for my general explanation.
Instead of trying to pronounce words out loud in your head while reading, you can relieve the pressure by not trying to do that. I remember trying to read through this thick book that's loaded with 1000 pages of research for just learning how to read. I bought it surprisingly at a library for only a few dollars because it was a donated book they wanted to sell. This book mentioned doing the same thing!
Being the stubborn person I am, I kept on pronouncing words in my head and like to still revert to it while reading my past write-ups. I'm so used to having headaches from reading my own write-ups because it's only me that I'm dealing with.
Long story short, I started reading fast in my head while trying to avoid sounding out words and then it made my studying sessions easier to handle. It's like less of a load to deal with and you are flowing better. My mind still likes to wander off, but now I can catch up faster by re-reading it up to like five times faster than how it was before. From going after trying to understand what I read line by line and doing it as fast as I can, I have a studying method that feels more effortless.
All of this positive effect happened from only not trying to say the words out loud in my head while reading. This sort of makes sense because there is like a brain delay that happens and maintaining it with normal concentration is always cumbersome. No wonder why some people don't bother themselves to study, even if it would be better for them.
