Saturday, May 30, 2009

Just, Any Thought

Problems occur all the time in life or for whatsoever reason. It is in these instances that we sometimes find ourselves trapped. It's a little awkward when your attempts to console is not quite with the best result. For me to not be willing to receive awkward feedback sometimes, I just have to put my faith in Jesus forward and go in for it! It says a lot to be able to think of all the influences that were ever placed on you and to willingly choose the right steps for yourself. A lot of free will is involved with people telling you what's bothering them and how you should change. I don't think the frequency of its nature is rather relevant to what needs to be done. Examining the whole structure and asking questions to avoid any common assumptions that might not be related is actually a pretty humble process to me. It takes a lot of time to analyze someone's thought, I guess I sometimes don't want to take time to think like that to give heart in a happy direction. I believe that I probably will need to if I perceive the person as someone who is not being very good about it.

Wednesday, May 27, 2009

Living in Motion

Today, I feel that life will keep on moving forward and that there is no reason to feel ashamed of being part of life. With these incidences of people trying to be clever with you and change you into some person you are uncomfortable about, I sometimes really need to speak up when that happens. It's wonderful to keep a smile on your face and to reflect how life is sometimes meant to be naturally filled with some discomforts. To have this sense of being wronged and trapped, it really can give off a person's level of maturity.

I think I'm finally in a mental state of awareness with no more confusion and emotional perturbations. I mean my eyes or body will still feel agitated or burned up at times, but all of that passes away through taking care of the body. I don't think I really need to blame anyone for anything bad happening to me. At times, I really feel tempted to boil up and then I tell myself that I am not going to communicate anything bad with them and just let it rip. To place myself in some of these awkward situations, I sometimes feel some pressure but I think it's good to self-manage a range of emotions and not get so caught up all the time.

Monday, May 25, 2009

My Postive Spirtiual Reflection

There are about so many things we could do to keep ourselves excited. When a person feels down and out, I realize that there are genuine people out there who can truly care for you. It is not just one person soaking in all the love and attention. It pretty much requires both sides to have this great model of unconditional love for each other. If this falls into place and with Jesus having conquered our sins and living in true repentance under his spirit, we find ourselves growing in fruitful fellowships.

It is highly difficult to sometimes gauge what is right and wrong. Some of us may feel this discomfort zone that causes a lot of calamity. I think individuals do influence us, and it would be a great thing to be a wonderful influence to others. The Bible states that God called all believers to repentance and to fellowship under a roof at a assembly, such as a home fellowship and a church.

I myself am definitely not perfect at everything and God says that it's through the blood of Jesus that we have been cleansed of all our unrighteous conduct. Furthermore, God blesses us with the Holy Spirit to convict us of our sins. The Lord has showed me a road where I can focus a lot more on self-control and to be reminded of how great God is through others communicating what the Lord has done for them. No matter how little or too wide, God is still in control and He truly blesses us with everything that we need in abundance.

Saturday, May 23, 2009

Group-related Respectful Values

I believe that a person may sometimes have a difficult time in understanding others' point of views. For example, I think a major conflict that some people like to feel is that a person fails to respect the other person's rights by doing something they disapprove of. In the circle of friendships, I think we all have our own different tastes and differences. By not wanting to come to terms with some of these things, it surely sometimes leaves room for outbursts or frustrations from a person who is trying to put up with it.

One of the major issues that I feel is that we sometimes may not closely look at how many times the offense happened, the time intervals that it occurs in, and end up weighing our own preferences over the individual as the de facto standard because we feel the need to change them to what makes us feel happy. It can even be bunched up into an agreement of a small group, and they may see upon it as being totally right! In a way, I think if we are not careful about accepting others' weaknesses and their way of going about it, it can surely cause tension for both sides or be disastrous for one side in the end.

I believe that collisions with other people are bound to happen with the more people we interact with. It is inevitable that conflict may be felt by someone by placing a sensitive insinuation that may feel edgy to her. Depending on the person, he or she may feel a necessity of becoming defensive or just going along with the crowd. I think arguing for the sake of self-defense about something the accused person did not do is a really difficult situation to be dealt with for the poor lad. It would take a lot of thinking, but basically what makes sense for me is to try to continue exercising self-control or living for the Lord. Letting it be known through communication is pretty much a difficult obstacle to overcome.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Timing is a Virtue

I don't think God created us to deprive ourselves of our basic necessities. People can feed you from left and right on how to live, but ultimately our conscious efforts belong to ourselves. Life is definitely a huge deal for mostly everybody. Whether guys on the market shop for food or we see people scrambling to pay off their loans, the world is a small bubble that's indefinitely loved by a spiritual being better than ourselves.

Our current inhibitions whether proudly great or small, sometimes have to be dealt with. Without needing to resort to uncivilized tactics, we can maintain our lives by being committed to loving people regardless of their preferences, background, ethnicity, or sins. This is what God is all about. He places concern on man, and long before Christ rose from the dead, God was still there for us.

I'm currently living in the golden age, and I'm supposedly in the best period of my life. Perhaps, others may not want to fancy in doing some of my physically challenging activities. I know that perseverance with a good clean attitude and repentant heart will help us find the fulfillment we are looking for. Focus needs to be on the right things because investing in these options create a more stronger foundation. Perhaps, confidence and not having resentment while being disappointed with still the greatest efforts of living for Christ creates a happy person! Let's worship in Spirit and absolute truth with the Word of God by our side.

Monday, May 11, 2009

We have an awesome God.

The Lord is super amazing. Many things happen in our lives, and I'm coming to realize that I have complained to God all out of vanity. The Apostle Paul stresses about having a renewed mind and regenerated heart in the New Testament. Philippians 4:8 says "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honest, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." (KJV) I just keep bringing up that verse for some reason. I don't think it is necessarily commenting on being ignorant to sensitive issues. I don't really think that Christians are striving to be dopey people.

Sitting around has its major losses. Just think of how God could use you in this struggling world. A lot of my friends who try to be prideful talk about giving back to the world and how everyone should believe a certain way. Instead of criticizing others, we should move our hearts in the direction of actively loving others. We may be just one person at the end of the day, but God has a bigger and brighter future for believers. We can look forward to the coming of Jesus who will bring forth a glorious and marvelous kingdom. Revelations 21:4 says "And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed away." Revelations 7:16 says "They shall hunger no more, neither thirst any more; neither shall the sun light on them, nor any heat."

I know that a lot of people doubt the Bible being the truth. I've heard some tell me that it is a wonderful story passed on for generations- that it's been etched onto the minds of decent people. Living out in truth is sometimes uncomfortable. We are born from a mother and have the right to not let anyone overshadow us into thinking how another should think. We have our minds to make up about this whole Jesus phenomenon. The choice is yours. Romans 10:9 says that if you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.

Saturday, May 2, 2009

Part 2 to last post

The last post seemed a little choppy, but basically what I want to do is "Go up to them and be like hey, and rip a smile about the whole situation." I'm getting pretty down to the wire and writing about stuff that I was uncomfortable about has taught me a lot of perseverance and to be a wonderful example in how I'm supposed to be. I think the sharing part has been a little shaky with interesting responses, but I'm willing to accept their feelings because that's a part of who I am. I like to bring peace instead of leading destruction with notions that they bring and stir up trials.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Communication, the right way!

I'm sort of sensing a great way of communicating is to not minimize a person's feelings. It could appear selfish sometimes to basically try to shut them up, get what you want, and then go out. I think time is a great way of telling where a person is at. I guess in life people may sometimes want to gang up on you and then force you out of there. It could be an annoying experience, especially if you did not intend on anything bad happening. To keep out frustrations for the petitioner's side, I think he or she basically needs to be ready to accept what may come his or her way. A technique that I have yet to try is to maximize their feelings in the plane of the offense, tell them a reason, and then give them time to ponder about it. Like here's an example, a girl goes up to another estranged woman and says "You told me that you made your personal decision already based on being uncomfortable with your personal preferences. You have not yet given your specifics about how I might have violated you. Are you feeling reproached with me asking you about it?"

It's so important to not lose it even if it feels unfair with the majority in opposition. The majority is pretty much hawk-eying you all the way. It takes a little skill but basically keeping yourself under control and asking about how they accept you without downplaying their feelings. I'm currently not trying to reveal my feelings about it at all, but trying to look at things vicariously. The results are turning out to favor me in the role of character. You could also entrust a person to open some doors. If you been mad about your social life so long, by trying this I know that it can help you mature and come to apply some good humor with them. You will also come to terms with yourself and how others will treat you. A weaker method that has some results is to just keep on apologizing, but it feels bad to apologize about how you feel that you are a wonderful person. I would not suggest taking that route of selling out, but keep apologies in mind because someone may end up surprising with astonishing abasement.