Adjusting to Bad Habits

4AverageLife's Main Personal List

1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
   
2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration. 
3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  

Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order

1. Faith
2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
3. Personal freedom
4. Balance
5. Understanding
6. Health
7. Strength and self-reliance
8. Inner harmony
9. Goodness
10. Enjoyment

I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:

1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!

Affirmations of what I want to believe:

1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.

Affirmations for compelling visions:

1. I have a purpose for living.
2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.

Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:

1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.

Affirmations for connecting to the heart:

1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.

Affirmations for acting:

1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 

Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands. 

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there. 

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What did I do right today?

I am working at adjusting to personal bad habits.

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Something that I have figured out is that my learning naturally works best when my mind is clear from distractions. However, I often get these minor cues that can distract me. They leave me feeling a little restless, and I can overreact to them slightly, like sometimes recalling a past grudge I haven't resolved yet. 

I've learned some more techniques that work for me that I'm going to share here. 

For dealing with any annoyances, I have a slight modification to make again and this time, out of trying to be respectful, I'm not going to message this to the dumb crowd of people I finally have recognized to act worse than me. I think it took longer because I was too codependent on them for my own self-confidence. They obviously are not going to say nice things while feeling bothered about something and being codependent upon me as well to not bother them by talking about it. For them, it's going to a stupid offense, if I just bring up the topic so I shouldn't expect it to be an easy thing to solve right away. 

What's working for me is this now which will feel familiar if you have been following my latest posts. 

1. Make sure your heart is in a good place.

2. Put on a good show.

3. Don't get hung over codependency. / Give better advice if they are annoying you with their advice.

4. Be funny!

A new thing I have to add on now is working on recognizing your cues and responding to them differently if you find it to be bothersome to you. This way, you are reforming your cues with more appropriate responses so you aren't really dropping/creating any habits, but instead just modifying them. 

Fortunately, a lot of things happened from this dumb crowd to totally flip the handle against them if I wanted to be a bad person, but I don't so these personal emotions fuel me to adjust my response to this annoying cue into something more positive and harmonious to keep me feeling undisturbed and happy. I get plenty of natural practice on my own from just keeping these thoughts to myself.