4AverageLife's Main Personal List
Affirmations of what I want:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
Just looking at the big picture of making a living on your own.
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Overall, I think it's just connecting with an idea and then going out to try it on your own while risking failure. I think losing money isn't really that bad as doing something that could end up killing you. As long as you didn't lose all your savings, then I think you'll be fine with working on bouncing back.
Even if you lose everything financially including your shirt, I think you still have your life to live even if it's a bunch of miserable grinding. In a sense, it comes down to how you always look at things and staying motivated to get to your end goals, if you're still not satisfied yet. If you find something that connects well with you and find that there's some way of making money with it, then you simply repeat the process while gradually adding more capital into it until you reach your financial goal that allows you to relax!
In a sense, you have to be smart about what you are trying to master. In my opinion, there are idiots out there who always think they can beat a casino out of their own willpower and experience in the long term. They fail to study the mathematical probabilities of winning which is usually not in their favor from letting their turned on brain take over, while trying to apply their own short-term strategies to making money. They can fall into some trap of thinking they are doing well, until they lose their money and blame it on something. Yeah, I don't think that's the proper long term strategy for making a living for yourself!
For example, I know someone who always thinks he's great enough, but then goes for his own saving grace by going for breaking even as much as possible and then stops playing for a while until he gets back in the mood for gambling. From having been annoyed by his incompetence, I've argued with him a lot out of indignance and now he just claims it's a hobby for him. He's a jealous, competitive, and selfish type who enjoys all of his small wins almost equally as his rare big wins but eventually taps out from getting outplayed by the system. He's not smart enough while thinking he's still really good and stays stubborn about that inflated personal view of himself. I think he is getting what he deserves in the long run!
