Thursday, November 6, 2025

Finding Joyful Causes With Learning

4AverageLife's Main Personal List
  1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for:  I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy,  4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
  2. I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
  3. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
  4. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
  5. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
  6. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
  7. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
  8. Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
  9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."

My Top 10 values are in order
  1. Faith
  2. Love, Happiness, and Joy
  3. Personal freedom
  4. Balance
  5. Understanding
  6. Health
  7. Strength and self-reliance
  8. Inner harmony
  9. Goodness
  10. Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.

Affirmations of what I want:
  1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
  2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
  1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
  2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
  1. I have a purpose for living.
  2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
  1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
  2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
  1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
  2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
  1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
  2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:

Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.

Summary of interpersonal goals:

Work on close friendships and love.

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Bare minimum statement:

The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.

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Current philosophical approach:

1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.

2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.

3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
  1. Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
  2. Always put on a good show.
  3. Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
  4. Be funny!
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End Game Mode

1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.

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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'

1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.

2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.

3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.

4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!

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What did I do right today?

Just trying to keep it brilliantly simple.

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I think everything ties together if there is a proper intent with fulfilling a nice calling! It could be about just getting married and for some of them, it doesn't include having kids which I find to be humorous. Overall, I guess the best type of goals are the ones that are related to fulfilling your true calling. 

A couple of my friends are idiots. They want something but think they are above everyone else already so don't have the desire to put in the hard work to acquire it. I, myself, used to have this mentality, too. I think the insecurity came from putting in the hard work and getting nothing out of it after several years of trying hard. I don't think that's the whole main point of worrying about work anymore. 

There's something more genuine underneath you. It's really being yourself after connecting with something that really works for you. As long as it's legal and moral enough; most importantly, it works. I think some people are true idiots for thinking that gambling at a favorite casino game is their way of life. I believe they are such degenerates from not realizing where their financial direction is headed for them and getting too lost from focusing too much on good feelings of winning and feeling like they deserve it, while also feeling like going on a tirade or justifying with themselves they can do better next time. I think sometimes they aren't questioning themselves and not using enough of their natural abilities to make these judgement calls but stubbornly sticking to their personally structured opinions, beliefs, and gut feelings of how often they've won. 

My advice is that if someone of this nature makes a pitch with you that they can make you money then you shouldn't give in to it. In my opinion, they mainly would want real money to play with and anyone to validate their thoughts. If you are unclear in the present if they have much more money for themselves already to play with, then fate hasn't revealed to you yet that they are already successful at it. Basically, it would be better to hold off on staking and let them go climb the ranks after scrambling for their own bankroll. Another thing that I am at fault for is that I sympathized with these fellow idiots and wanted to give them a little free money to play with from wanting to give them a chance. It was such a stupid move while looking at it from a mathematical perspective on your chances of winning big but at least it was better odds of profiting a little than winning huge while betting on an expensive lottery ticket!

Those idiots pretty much buried themselves and deserve where they put themselves. At least they were lucky enough to have the freedom to do that to themselves. If they want to clean themselves up then it's on them to find the proper help. It's never going to come easy for anyone. What I'm saying is that, if you want to be happy and have everything around you going right enough then you need to put in the hard work. Whatever good thing it is you find for yourself, you should work really hard at it. Personally, I had to clear up my mental anxieties and it took a lot of hard work to finally overcome them with enough courage.