4AverageLife's Main Personal List
Affirmations of what I want:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
I feel like I'm right where I belong with my current life.
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The only pure regret I really have about my life is how I wish I picked up on this sooner. Regardless of it, I feel happy to be engaging in what I think I was meant to do now.
Being a shorty for most of my life and filling myself with so much pressure while being a perfectionist, I was doomed to be a natural at failing and feeling like it was the end of the world. It was like I wouldn't be able to turn back time and just let myself watch with envious eyes how my cute little sister would be succeeding. Now that I think about it, she sort of sucks and has reached her full capacity! I feel stuck with her for life now, but have already accepted it.
Therefore, it always feels awesome to have been born to become a man!
I realize the values now and what I should really be looking for in a wife. It's so simple; she's my type! A curious friend has asked me what my type is, and I think she's a universal type so I don't think I need to do any further explaining in detail. I already covered it though in one of my past posts. I don't remember everything I wrote in it, but I do remember the good vibes I felt off of it.
My friend isn't married and struggling to find a woman to marry. I think he's still screwed because he thinks looks have something to do with it. He has at least one obvious insecurity that he hasn't resolved for himself. Another struggling buddy is too lackadaisical while getting himself out there; he says he's trying but it's not enough while he isn't even frustrated about it. I think he's also screwed with staying a single man for life.
Another one is a plain loser while thinking he's the best one out there- man, this guy is such a pain in the rear end. I mean you can argue with him that he isn't and he'll settle for convincing himself he is near the top which means he will never be getting there. Another one has too many, personally, complex issues and makes up annoying excuses that are actually funny; I think his issue is that he's still too much of an idiot to figure it out for himself while being lazy.
I have basically been around guys who suck at finding a good woman for themselves. I know I have the ability to surpass them. It's in the eye of the beholder, which means that it's your personal experiences over everyone else. If you're happy with the woman you're with, then there's no need to care what everybody else thinks. When you're feeling unhappy and these annoying people start saying mean stuff about her then well, maybe you will be tearing off someone's rooftop!
I have been around annoying guys who I conclude are annoying jerks and they are married too! After all these annoying experiences, I believe that men are more capable than women at being better people in the world.
There's no competition because a smart woman knows not to even play into all this nonsense for her. In a sense, a smart woman won't have too much of a hard time laughing all of this off. My lady bestie has a hard time because she does wish she was a man sometimes, so when I ramble about all this stuff about being proud of being a man in this world and the privileges I'm associated with, she likes to quietly dissent and move along to the next topic while trying not to care about it.
