4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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Bare minimum statement:
The bare minimum things that I want to do on a regular day is invest/trade, read, clear out email clutter, workout, conduct good hygiene, and work on an online course. I no longer feel bad about trying to make money through investing and trading. I'm pretty much happy being a nobody in those sectors and don't need anyone really supporting me with how good or bad I'm doing. As long as I make enough to get around with my fat lifestyle then I'll be happy to be maintaining it when I get there.
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Current philosophical approach:
1. There are two extreme and opposite personalities when having relationships with others: toxic independence and codependency. The balance happens from landing somewhere in the middle.
2. It takes self-realization and self-discipline to respond to a common cue in a better way and change the bad habit.
3. I have four affirmations that go in order to deal with anything that bothers me, no matter how small or great:
- Make sure your heart is coming from a good place.
- Always put on a good show.
- Limit codependency and/or give better advice to someone annoying.
- Be funny!
End Game Mode
1. Get rich through trading and investing.
2. Work out to earn a decent amount of muscles and nicely defined abs.
3. Stay happily married.
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Steps Being Taken to Get to 'End Game Mode'
1. Emotional intelligence and inner strength are the most important attributes to obtain before proceeding further.
2. Becoming rich will fund your desired activities like giving back to charities or doing expensive healthy activities like traveling to do cool stuff with the best gear and hiring some good guides along the way.
3. Having a fit body is the next best thing you can do for yourself, after acquiring enough mental strength and emotional intelligence.
4. My goal is finding a hot wife I can be comfortable settling down with for the rest of my life!
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What did I do right today?
I'm just grateful to the Lord Jesus for dying on the cross to pay for our sins and with God providing the Holy Spirit to convict us of our sins, along with His mercy to allow us to always confess our sins and go for turning away from them. Christ is risen!
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I think by living in a capitalistic system, it's truly a blessing from God if you can find out how and then make it work enough in your favor. For the longest time, I was in a mentally depressed rut. It happened after being disillusioned about finishing a college major on campus that I thought a lot of people were raving about and socially branded with being the best out of them all. I thought that was all I would ever need to graduate with to be set but my mistake was that even though the school work can stay rough and tedious while not being driven to excel at it; the personal effort was still not good enough and supposedly never ends because you have to continuously put in the hard work to improve yourself and gain more professional knowledge to stay competitive. At least I still participated in the grand scheme of things and have an officially recognized college degree!
It really came about for me in a more fruitful manner after finally connecting all of this with my faith in Jesus. It took me maybe almost 15 years to finally get a glimpse of what's supposed to work for me! I never seriously subscribed to any mentors and was always totally lost with whatever others wanted to tell me. There were some annoying ones who thought they were trying to help me, but I think they are miserable people themselves from being sensitive about getting rebuffed and then criticized with my personal comments that can either hurt their feelings or enrage them!
I think the hard part is really staying true to your course and always being committed to it. It can be easy to bounce back and forth like, for example, failing to lose weight after trying repeatedly so many times. You would already know it's bad for you if it became too noticeable, but you still can't find yourself doing enough to lose the weight. It's like you've just accepted the situation and are not going to change it, while it bothers you enough sometimes to bring it up with whoever you can talk to about it.
What I think separates me from the pack is that those things bother me so much that I can't just accept it and move on while forgetting about it like most people are already pretty capable of doing enough. It really depresses or annoys me so much that my coping mechanism is to put in the relentless work to try to change it. I think this personal trait is what helped me find a stronger joy in putting my faith in Jesus and to eventually develop a growth mindset.
I'm so much happier with how things are going for myself even though it's a daily grind. I don't even mind staying single, but I have finally figured out my type while I get to see a couple of them regularly. In my opinion, she's a common hottie and going to age like fine wine that I would never need to put my lovely gaze on another beautiful lady while being married to her for life! I'm telling you here right now that putting your faith in Christ is the way to go and also developing a growth mindset will be very helpful for you.
