Monday, February 20, 2023

Staying Open-minded

4AverageLife's Main Personal List
  1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. 
  2. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
  3. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
  4. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
  5. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
  6. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
  7. Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
  8. Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
  9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order
  1. Faith
  2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
  3. Personal freedom
  4. Balance
  5. Understanding
  6. Health
  7. Strength and self-reliance
  8. Inner harmony
  9. Goodness
  10. Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:
  1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
  2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
  1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
  2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
  1. I have a purpose for living.
  2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
  1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
  2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
  1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
  2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
  1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
  2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 
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What did I do right today? 

I have made some big steps to building my wealth. 

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What I have been considering now is that my confidence is even better than before because I think my affirmations work in a selfish sense with dating. Like if I don't match a person's dating preferences then I won't mind. If it's because I look like some part and I have found out about it later, then I'm going to call that person shallow in my head and move on with an accepting and understanding heart as best as possible. It's still not going to affect my confidence either way now. 

I'm starting to see how this is all panning out for me, so in a sense I'm not worried about being a short Asian anymore. I would rather focus on obtaining my goals and continuing to meet some like-minded women while trying to experience authentic romantic chemistry. I am very open minded to it while also realizing that I have some dating preferences as well. I am not going to be shallow about appearances at all even though it is a preference while being open-minded to it and always giving it a chance. Actually for me, the bosom is the most attractive part and it seems like any size will work for me after I get a glimpse of it while it is fully clothed. 

I hope my meetup/face-to-face initial encounter goes well today. I have my fingers crossed honestly. My strategy is to just be myself and confirm a lot of the things I said about myself on my profile because I want to come across as someone who always tries to walk the talk! I like to try to keep my own words about myself.