4AverageLife's Main Personal List
- I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. Five criteria to look for: I'm just looking for 1.) a sexy lady who is 2.) laid back, 3.) she wants to be with a guy, 4.) cares about personality more than appearances, and 5.) is usually interested in getting intimate just for fun! I'll be happy to settle with one of those women for the rest of my life.
- I want to be rich from trading and investing in options, stocks, and Forex. Eventually, I want this to also include some real estate and bonds. I also want to make a lot of money from getting involved in IT which focuses on software engineering, IT security, and database administration.
- Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
- Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
- Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
- Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself.
- Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body, and yoga classes. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Conduct regular hygiene. Take a shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
- Read something from a book. I must commit.
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman."
My Top 10 values are in order
- Faith
- Love, Happiness, and Joy
- Personal freedom
- Balance
- Understanding
- Health
- Strength and self-reliance
- Inner harmony
- Goodness
- Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands.
Affirmations of what I want:
- I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now has this undying love and companionship with her and maintaining a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
- I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
- I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
- I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
- I have a purpose for living.
- I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
- I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
- I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
- I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
- I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
- I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
- I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises.
Summary of personal tasks:
Trading/investing, doing work, working out, growth stretches, ab belt workout, push ups/pull ups, facial product, showering, brushing teeth twice, reading, homework, and other errands.
Summary of interpersonal goals:
Work on close friendships and love.
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What did I do right today?
I am understanding more about my fantasies and how to control them without going too overboard.
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Something that I'm doing is playing online Poker with play chips, watching cool anime, and researching on how to do physical intimacy properly for fun. I guess there's nothing fully wrong with it on my end now, since so many others do it already while not getting in trouble for it.
I guess I'm living out having fun while imagining a fantasy that I long for. I think I like to try to push myself often to live a more balanced life. I'm willing to put in the hard work.
Currently, I have almost $50,000 invested on my own. Most of it is on stocks and I have 1/5 on a defi crypto exchange. Everybody is entitled to their own opinion, so I think it's important to not get offended by someone else freely offering their views. I can clearly see some bias that can offer up some interesting conspiracy theories. Whether it's true or not is debatable.
This is something that I've had to work on because I seem to get worked up by it sometimes. Anyways, I've found out that friends and acquaintances can become narcissistic in this area if you offend them greatly while showing a vulnerable side that they can walk all over. Still, if you start feeling this way, then I think you are being a narc also in a bad way.
The way to get over this is to not feel this way from the start by finding a healthy coping strategy that aligns with your personality to deal with it. My strategy that aligns with my personality is to look to give better advice or one that comes from the best of my personal ability. I believe that this has a tendency to annoy my peers who gave me their shoddy advice first, so they won't feel like giving me more advice that often. It also means that I get to stay relevant and make them feel like I can take control selfishly which they will want to run away from while trying to cover their tracks.
