Thursday, January 26, 2023

Being Successful With Maintaining Current Relationships

4AverageLife's Main Personal List
  1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. 
  2. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
  3. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
  4. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
  5. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
  6. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
  7. Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
  8. Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
  9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order
  1. Faith
  2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
  3. Personal freedom
  4. Balance
  5. Understanding
  6. Health
  7. Strength and self-reliance
  8. Inner harmony
  9. Goodness
  10. Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:
  1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now have this undying love and companionship with her and maintain being a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
  2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
  1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
  2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
  1. I have a purpose for living.
  2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
  1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
  2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
  1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
  2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
  1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
  2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 
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What am I grateful for?
  1. A decent head on my shoulder.
  2. Making some consistent money on the side with my trades and investments.
  3. I developed a special ability to truly move on from anything in my current life. 
  4. Finally having a very close friend who I am open-minded about being in a serious relationship with. 
  5. Having a life where I feel mostly up and can prioritize my time based on what I feel like doing and improve upon myself.
  6. I have learned to be open-minded.
  7. I have a strong moving on capability from realizing high-level and low-level energy. 
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What did I do right today? 

I put in at least a little effort to do my job.

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I'm really interested in being successful at everything I do now while maintaining a sound and happy mind. I'm ready to accept any shortcomings and move on without holding any grudges while replacing negative low level thoughts and feelings with high level ones. 

From doing this, I'm realizing that even if I'm not really in love with my close friend who I've felt tons of struggles with in maintaining a friendship, I still do love her a lot and want to always have a great relationship with her. Maybe a key to having successful relationships is love, itself! 

I'm also very open-minded about any thoughts of getting into any romantic and serious relationship with her. I'm not even jealous with the thought of her getting jiggy with it to someone else. It looks like I'm opening up my mind and feeling this way now. 

I originally was trying to honor my parents but I believe they are ethically wrong, so it's like if your parents are sinning then you shouldn't follow suit. It's more like you would be honoring them by living a truly successful and happy life even if they live like people with low level and negative thoughts from being upset about you choosing to be with someone they disapprove of for any reasons! 

Overall, I think two keys to having a good relationship with anyone are love and open-mindedness.