Friday, January 13, 2023

Realizing Emotional Maturity

4AverageLife's Main Personal List
  1. I want to be married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and to have this undying love and companionship with her and then maintain being a family while being a wealthy man! I must choose and be loved by this woman. 
  2. Buy a single family home. I must be rich!
  3. Do some smart cooking. I must be vigilant, committed, not distracted, and feeling lots of time.
  4. Work on applying clean stuff to my face. Buy related products. I must feel comfortable.
  5. Continue to do growing-naturally-taller routines, even if some of them are a scam! I must be committed and remind myself. 
  6. Work out four days a week with alternating muscular, full body,  and yoga classes.  I must be committed and remind myself.
  7. Conduct regular hygiene. Take shower before sleeping. Don't forget the mouth guard. I must be committed and remind myself.
  8. Finish my software engineering related courses. I must be committed and remind myself.
  9. Read something from a book. I must commit.  
Purpose: "I am brilliant and universally favored by others therefore I will live the life of a wealthy gentleman." 

My Top 10 values are in order
  1. Faith
  2. Love, Happiness, and Joy 
  3. Personal freedom
  4. Balance
  5. Understanding
  6. Health
  7. Strength and self-reliance
  8. Inner harmony
  9. Goodness
  10. Enjoyment
I see myself as a fit and cut up dude enjoying physical intimacy with a beautiful woman who is my faithful wife and she's loving every second of it, too! I am also a rich man with successful results that are visible while managing any personal hassles or adversity with positivity that is second to none. I make money while having a lot of free time on my hands. 

Affirmations of what I want:
  1. I am married to a hot woman who enjoys making love almost all the time and now have this undying love and companionship with her and maintain being a family as a wealthy man! I have chosen and am loved by this woman.
  2. I am now averaging reading at least thirty books a year!
Affirmations of what I want to believe:
  1. I am always fully happy with what I have going on in life.
  2. I am capable of not feeling hurt or bothered by others.
Affirmations for compelling visions:
  1. I have a purpose for living.
  2. I visualize my dreams with clear and specific goals in mind.
Affirmations for thinking, speaking, and affirming into existence:
  1. I have control over my thoughts and stay focused on my affirmations.
  2. I enjoy thinking with optimism and a cheerful heart.
Affirmations for connecting to the heart:
  1. I keep myself open-minded to finding my woman.
  2. I am pursuing things that really matter to me the most.
Affirmations for acting:
  1. I am taking action right away without letting it linger.
  2. I let myself accept great opportunities when the situation arises. 
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What am I grateful for?
  1. A decent head on my shoulder.
  2. Making some consistent money on the side with my trades and investments.
  3. I developed a special ability to truly move on from anything in my current life. 
  4. Finally having a very close friend who I am open-minded about being in a serious relationship with. 
  5. Having a life where I feel mostly up and can prioritize my time based on what I feel like doing and improve upon myself.
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What did I do right today? 

I am working towards planning my steps ahead.

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Sometimes, it doesn't matter how much experience you say that you have with anything. Random things can sometimes just surprise and overwhelm you during daily moments which just causes you to react emotionally and/or maybe get so stressed about it on rare occasions. 

It doesn't matter who you are in this world. Everyone can keep on growing and improving in this area called emotional maturity. One of my closest friends can think or react in a quite silly manner whenever she feels stressed out. She says that it always affects her mental and physical health which is unfortunate. 

I honestly still love her with all the pureness in my heart. What makes it so easy and such a joy to always meet her in the middle of our relationship is that I know she likes to try to be a kind person. 

She really isn't that fully equipped to give advice everywhere with her friends. Sometimes it doesn't matter how much experience you feel happy about having with an area you want to give advice in. It comes down to being talented in coaching or mentoring others. She's clearly not that gifted because she can show struggles of being emotionally mature. For all the people she says who can relate to any of her feelings, they also can keep on growing emotionally mature. In fact, it's anyone who can benefit from always seeking to grow in this area.