After you hear her say that she has absolutely nothing against you, like the words "No resentment." Try to forgive her with what you are mad about. It's really hard to deal with the pet peeve, but you know she likes you so you want to try to not be a big meanie. It takes a real man to be able to forgive a woman who does crazy things to you, all out of love, especially if she strikes your weak spots.
The next step is to embrace her because you have a good reason that she might like you. Have her communicate something related to what you are mad about with her. Don't make it so obvious with her mistake. Then, reassure her that it's okay to embrace her differences with you.
For example, a woman blocked a man she felt uncomfortable with on MySpace. She told the man that she had absolutely nothing against him. The man is extremely annoyed about it because he can't find a good reason. He later feels that the woman likes him. The man is going to forgive her and express it by embracing the woman. He asks the woman at church, if she has ever been in a serious dating relationship with anyone. No matter what the response, he then lets her know that she answered the most important question and that he doesn't mind the differences that he has with her. He then ends up hugging her and kissing her on the cheek. Do you think she'll run away if the man sits by her? My guess is that she won't.
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