I know I'm getting warmer with having everything set up. I think one of the things I need to do is just keep pushing myself and pushing aside some entertaining ideas as less important and go for practical things even though it may feel boring.
For the most part, I don't think dating sites will come that much in handy anymore unless I'm looking for people who basically want sex! Probably the best option for me in meeting open people could very well be just going to places where people just gather and making friends. I think the best relationship may actually come out of being introduced by a good friend.